What Teens Say: Truth or Fiction

Article written by Stephanie Mauk, THINK Educator

It comes as no surprise that teens often turn to their friends to find answers to questions about sex.  Also, unsurprisingly, same-aged peers may not always have the most reliable information or use the correct terminology which can be confusing for growing minds that are eager for knowledge.  Adults who interact with young people can help create a safe, comfortable conversation around sex and sexual health in a variety of ways, by removing stigma when discussing STIs as well as establishing a shame-free environment in which youth can discuss sex.  With the right tools and knowledge, young people can feel empowered to make the right choice for themselves when it comes to sex and sexual health.  Below are a few myths around sex, STIs, and preventing pregnancy:

What teens say: Everyone is having sex.

Truth: According to the Guttmacher Institute, approximately 40% of 15-19 year-olds reported having sexual intercourse.

What teens say: You can’t get pregnant your first time or when you’re on your period.

Truth: The truth is that you can pregnant every single time you have sex – unless you’re already pregnant.  Even condoms and birth control aren’t a 100% guarantee.

What teens say: You can re-use a condom if you wash it properly.

Truth: A condom should NEVER be used more than once under any circumstances.

What teens say: If your partner has an STI, you’ll see it.

Truth: Many STIs have no tell-tale signs or symptoms and often go unnoticed.  STIs such as chlamydia and Human Papillomavirus (HPV) may not show any signs or symptoms but can cause long-term health problems if left undiagnosed and untreated.

What teens say: Using two condoms is better than one.

Truth: Doubling up on condom usage will not protect you from getting an STI or an unplanned pregnancy.  The friction created between the two condoms increases the chances of breakage.

What teens say: Birth control (pills, patch, IUD, implant) will protect me from getting an STI.

Truth: Birth control of any kind is designed to prevent pregnancy - not STIs and HIV.  Using dual protection, which means using a form of birth control AND condoms, is the best way to prevent unplanned pregnancy and the transmission of STIs and HIV.

What teens say: You can’t get STIs from oral sex.

Truth: You’re still at risk of STIs from oral sex so it’s important to use a dental dam or condom to minimize your risk.